Push their limits carefully, but make it clear this is a punishment and not for fun. Be sure to carefully choose what kind of pain if you’re going with one of these methods.ImpactIf your submissive likes thuddy pain, use stingy pain. Typically, pain punishments don’t work as well to change behavior, especially if the submissive is also a masochist. These types of punishments involve pain, which is a tricky subject for punishing.
